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Even more determination

Husband is coming home for Easter and I am determined to make this work which could be a bit of a challenge. You see it isn’t only the dogs and birds who are presenting me with a compatibility problem, it’s also the fact that Son’s relationship with Husband is fraught with tension. With both of my ‘boys’ incapacitated, Husband permanently with Parkinson’s, and Son temporarily with the post-surgical back brace, my attention is divided and the 3-way dynamics sometimes resemble a comic strip with me as the punchline.

Yes, indeed, sometimes three is literally a crowd, so, even though he doesn’t know this yet, Son is going to Grandma’s for a couple of days so that I can give Husband my undivided attention. Well, not quite as I am not really into doing the doting wife thing so Husband would find that a bit alarming, but I will try!

I’ve been training the guinnea fowl into a welcoming party and they are doing very well.

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Determination

When I let the geese and ducks out in the morning, they now head, vociferously, straight to the dogyard. They seem to have it in for the dogs after our so-called harmony day the other day (end results of this are another story).

Look how determined they are on their way to tell the dogs who is boss around here. Godfrey’s head is missing from the photo – sorry about that – hehe! Well he bit my hand tonight and drew blood (another another story!)

Of course the situation is reversed in the evening but I have to say that the dogs aren’t quite as loud.

It looks like they are never going to be compatible and I was silly to try. Oh well – live and learn!

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Too much information

A couple of people were curious about the pigmentation I mentioned in yesterday’s post (pre-surgery, we were told that Son had a couple of tell-tale ‘spots’ that were warning signs of scoliosis). Anyway, he allowed me to take a photo of the biggest of these which is on the inside of one of his elbows. He has a couple more of these elsewhere.

I remember now that they told us these were ‘cafe au lait’ spots. Okay so I looked it all up and found this site which I wish I hadn’t because, if the information is correct, it means that Son has this neuro-whatever condition which may have come from me. After all I’m the one with the freckles!

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/819447

Argh!

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Before and after

I suddenly realized that I have some useful, newfound knowledge to impart and that it may be helpful, so here it is.

At our first visit to the surgeon who performed Son’s scoliosis surgery, several student doctors were invited into the room to have a look at him because he was a bit of an unusual ‘case’. This was two years ago when Son was 16 and the reason he seemed unusual was that, with his shirt on, it wasn’t at all obvious that anything was wrong with his back. So, when he took his shirt off, the student doctors were taken aback to see such a pronounced curve. They circled him as he stood like a side-show exhibit, then someone drew attention to the inside of his elbow where there is a rather large brown patch of pigmentation, like a small birthmark or a big freckle. He was then ‘searched’ for more of these (if they’d asked me, I could have told them he had another one above his hip). We were then told that this is a warning sign for scoliosis.

Now who would ever know that? That’s why I’m posting this – in case you have children or teenagers with this kind of pigmentation. I’m sorry I haven’t presented research links here, but it’s easy enough to find on the internet.

My other bit of useful information is this: the longterm after-effects of general anaesthesia, and pain medication, can play havoc with the brain, especially after major surgery. Son was under anaesthetic for several hours and then on morphine-based painkillers for several weeks. It is now six weeks since his surgery and two weeks since he took his last painkiller. He is 90% his usual, adorable self, 5% his usual unadorable self and 5% a hound from hell who I’ve never met before. In fact, even Son admits to never having met this 5% of himself.

So, the other day, when we met with the surgeon for our first post-op. appointment, one of our many questions was to do with whether Son’s hound-from-hellish moods were attributable to the anaesthetic and subsequent drugs and the answer was yes, and that it might take several more weeks for his brain to recover from the onslaught.

Now who would ever know that either? The miraculous surgery and Son’s incredibly fast recovery – all so wonderful – has been somewhat tainted by that hound from hell but at least we now know that this hound will soon go away and that is an enormous relief!

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Golden pheasants

Since there was so much interest in our golden pheasant, Phoenix 1, yesterday, I thought I’d re-post a couple of pictures of the day Phoenix 1 banished his brother, Phoenix 2. They had a terrible fight over the one remaining female pheasant and Phoenix 2 now lives with neighbours because, each time he returns, Phoenix 1 attacks him again despite the fact that the female is long gone.

I was never able to take a picture of the female pheasants. One was killed by our dogs when she accidentally flew into their pen and the other one disappeared mysteriously.  But here is a photo I found online at  http://www.gamebird.com/Goldens323x250.jpg

As you can see, the female has a different kind of beauty from the male. In this photo you can also see why the males continually get into wrangles with each other if there aren’t enough females.  I am beginning to wonder if our second female pheasant simply flew away to escape all the attention!

Anyway, here is Phoenix 1 again and in this photo you can see the length of his tail feathers. He had lost them all in his battle with Phoenix 2 but they are all grown back now which is perhaps why he loves looking at his reflection in the back veranda windows so much!

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