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Falling in love

on April 8, 2012

I have had a request to write the story of my love affair with Husband but I’m not sure whether to do so or not – mmmm! I think the 23 year age gap is a curiosity factor, especially since Husband was 41 and I was still a teenager when we first met. The story is rather romantic I suppose, and it is rather a gentle story in retrospect; at the time it was high drama – hehe!

Dilemma!


39 responses to “Falling in love

  1. sofichick says:

    What a lovely idea. I would love to read it if you decide to write it. If not, then we’ll just have to make up our own version in our heads based on the tidbit you shared….oh the things we could come up with!!!

  2. artfulanxiety says:

    I thought that I’d like to hear it when you mentioned it the other day. I didn’t want to be rude and ask you to tell it, but you totally should 🙂

  3. Robyn Lee says:

    I have no doubt this would be a very good read Julie!! Go for it if it feels good to you:)

  4. melissakoski says:

    tell it! tell it! tell it!

    Ha, I say that because I’m a total blabber mouth with no discretion or will power and am located across the world from you. If you were closer I’d say hush your typing fingers and come on over, the kettle is on! 23 years does make it all seem juicy, despite its gentleness.

  5. pixilated2 says:

    Romance, high drama, um… SUSPENSE! Aw c’mon do tell!
    Pretty please? 😉
    ~ Lynda

  6. It’s always interesting to hear how people met. You can always gloss over the parts you want to keep private.

  7. victoriaaphotography says:

    I agree with ‘wordsfromanneli’. It’s always interesting to hear how couples meet.

    I really enjoy a good love story, but like all great films, especially foreign films from years ago, I like the bits where she looks lovingly into his eyes……….. and then you see them having breakfast together.

    Those private, intimate moments in between those 2 scenes should remain private for the couple concerned (& left for the reader or viewer to imagine).

    Sometimes I think about the boyfriends I had when much younger and the interesting circumstances which surround some of those first encounters. My very first real boyfriend I met on a blind date.

  8. Although my marriage to my huband of almsot 42 yrs (next week) started when I too was 16 my guy was only 24. My mom should never have been so worried, she ended up loving the man I am spending eternity with.

    I’m game, Jules, even though almost 10 yrs difference certainly gets trumped by 15 plus years I’ll tell my love affair story if you tell yours,

  9. janeslog says:

    You could include the things you wish to share and keep the other things you don’t want to share private.

  10. 2me4art says:

    Sounds like a wonderful story. I had crushes on men when I was a teen & always wondered what it would have been like.

    • jmgoyder says:

      Yes, it’s a pretty interesting story – just a pity we are living out the sad ending (in terms of Husband’s health I mean); will probably do me good to write about happier times!

    • jmgoyder says:

      Yes, it’s a pretty interesting story – just a pity we are living out the sad ending (in terms of Husband’s health I mean); will probably do me good to write about happier times!

  11. I would be VERY interested to read your story!

  12. camsgranny says:

    Do it! It might make you happy by reliving (so to speak), Kettle’s on, let’s go! hehehe

  13. dcwisdom says:

    Ok. I’m looking forward to the story. I believe you are under the gun to write it now. 🙂 Not asking for any spicy details, just your perspective and maybe his, too, if he’s game. Thanks for considering writing your story.

  14. I’d love to read it. And I’m sure your husband would too.

  15. bluebee says:

    Whoa – not going to say anything either way on this one (but will most certainly read it if you do 😉 )

  16. jalamdar says:

    I asked you to tell us the story of how you met Anthony because I love to know how the Universe brings couples together and I want to know how you knew Anthony was the one for you even though you were so young and at the time he professed no interest. I love it that you still believe Husband to be your hero…..I want a hero too.
    My last relationship which lasted 9 years was with a partner 24 years my junior. Sometimes we are led in ways that do not fit the societal norm and the telling of your story would help me keep my trust to follow my own path.

    P.S. Not to add pressure but we need some more Novella too…..*smile*

    • jmgoyder says:

      It’s interesting that we both have experienced this ageist thing! I will write the story – and, oh yeah, better get back to the novella – you are a gemmmmmmmm!

  17. Thanks for letting me camp out in your blog this evening. I had a great time, really enjoyed myself learning about you and your life, and tried to leave my campsite as clean as when I arrived.

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