jmgoyder

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Blogbloops!

on April 13, 2012

Oh well, it’s not like it’s the first time, although I have tried to be careful over the months since last November, when I, rather naively, began this blog.

Today, I blooped and then obliterated an angry post because it didn’t quite match with my otherwise perfect and delightful personality (ha!) – sorry to subscribers who received the angry post – just delete it.

This afternoon, Husband and I had a phone conversation that indicated to me that he was still disorientated. My anger dissipated and the love rushed back like a cracking wave.


37 responses to “Blogbloops!

  1. Stiff upper lip isn’t always the best. Sometimes you do need to let off steam. Glad you’re back on beam now 😉

  2. Randy Roberts says:

    So you’re human…and so is he.

  3. A bit deserving f you don;t mind me saying. Men can be so insensitive.

  4. twizzkid says:

    Oh goodness, if it made you feel better to delete the post fine, but I for one, find your willingness to share those, let’s just say “more difficult moments” reassuring that we are all allowed to be human. Tonight I stayed away from a meeting where I am the treasurer of the group because they wrote that possible new members might attend, and I was frankly so grouchy at the end of my work day from craziness there, that I figured I’d scare them off from joining the group. lol So, I’ll have to do some minor mending there. Thank you for all you share with us! My grandmother had Parkinsons and I am in awe of your strength. So give yourself permission to be human too please. Well gee here I am rambling in comment. yikes. It’s the middle of the night here, does that excuse me? maybe I’m wriiting in my sleep. LOL.

  5. i am glad to know that i’m not the only one who bloops and then recalls it – although since my daughter is now my editor (until i get the hang of semi colons vs commas, which will be never) it doesn’t happen as often as it might 🙂

    • jmgoyder says:

      Ha! I don’t usually have problems with grammar (having taught it for a few years) but I do have a habit, occasionally, of blogging something that would be better left unsaid! Thanks so much for your comments!

  6. bahharvey says:

    Good thing you aren’t in politics ! They never let anything get deleted.

    • jmgoyder says:

      Yeah but on the internet it’s the same isn’t it? Argh! On the other hand, that post I deleted wasn’t terrible, it was just terribly honest – ha!

  7. Sometimes you have to let it all out! I got that post, it wasn’t that bad anyway.

  8. cuhome says:

    Ah, well. So you are human, welcome to this big club!! You deserve a blooper or two!

  9. pixilated2 says:

    Once again there is nothing I might add that your other friends have not already expressed… You have brilliant friends BTW! You are allowed to have emotions, and outbursts, and we understand. It keeps you healthy between your ears. xo, Lynda

  10. Don’t feel badly! Your sense of humor shone through and I totally understood your frustration.
    And it’s part of your love story. Really!!

  11. janechese says:

    blog bloops-ha ha, say THAT 3 times quickly! 🙂

  12. Judith Post says:

    Glad you’re not a saint. I’d have to start polishing my halo–and it’s pretty rusty.

  13. It’s okay to be angry once in a while, as long as it doesn’t hurt someone else. I don’t think you’re hurting anyone by letting off some steam once in a while. We all need to do that. Beats blowing a gasket.

  14. Tilly Bud says:

    I read it in my email inbox. We’ve all been there, though for different reasons.

    If you’re worried about it happening again, schedule your post to publish an hour or two later. That gives you time to mull it over, change it, or abandon it.

  15. Paws To Talk says:

    It is okay to be angry! Sometimes you just have to bark it out.
    Bella and DIDi

  16. I like the word “blogbloops”. I have a feeling I may need it sometime. Don’t worry about venting. That’s what a blog is for, right?

  17. I think holding the fort as you do is exhausting and you need to vent once in a while, especially when it’s deserved. Of course nobody would want to read angry posts day after day but that’s not what you do. You actually need a lot of positive in your daily grunt, which is remarkable. I think your readers are glad to see you’re human, like all of us.

  18. melissakoski says:

    That was the nicest “angry” blog ever if you ask me. You’re so strong.

  19. My wise old grandmother taught me that if I am angry at someone, sit down and write them a letter. Then set it aside for 24 hours, preferably in a deep, dark drawer or a dark closet. After 24 hours get it out and read it. If the letter still says what you want to say, go ahead and mail it. I’ve written many letters over the years but never mailed one.

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