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Looking up

on September 20, 2012

I’ve been asked a few times now about the rationale behind having so many birds when life is already complicated enough with Anthony’s Parkinson’s Disease, the nursing lodge transition traumas, Ming’s back surgery and subsequent life adjustments. So here is an explanation:

Last year, when Anthony was still living here at home and the idea of a nursing lodge had not even been contemplated, and I was already on an extended leave arrangement from my job as a lecturer at the local university, I decided to do everything possible to make our lives brighter. It began with the guinnea fowl because Anthony has always loved them; then poultry; then the peafowl (that was my idea). We had chookyards built, began to reap the delight of fresh eggs and the guinnea fowl (a dozen) made a very interestingly noisy addition to what had become an overly quiet life.

I befriended all of the birds and, to some extent, tamed them but it wasn’t until that first dusk when I watched, amazed, as all of the guinneas and peafowl flew up into the trees to sleep, that I realized I was hooked. Why? Because for the first time in years I was looking up.


55 responses to “Looking up

  1. And it gives you something else to think about. Birds are so entertaining.

  2. terry1954 says:

    i love your explanation, in times such as we live with PD, it is easy to look down, so thank you for this beautiful story

  3. jennnadams says:

    Your white peacock is beautiful! Keep looking up! 🙂

  4. artsifrtsy says:

    Sweet. Looking up is a good way to put it. Resilience is born out of finding the light in the midst of the darkness.

  5. ceciliag says:

    You are awesome.. of course.. we are looking up! have a lovely day!! c

  6. A great explanation and I can definitely see the draw.

  7. robincoyle says:

    What a lovely reason to look up.

  8. Oh wow. I love that play on words. What a beautiful metaphor!

  9. Northern Narratives says:

    Everyone needs a reason to look up and your birds are so adorable.

  10. dcwisdom says:

    That’s beautiful! Keeping looking up! BIG love from…me

  11. Judith Post says:

    I don’t have any brilliant answers for the five stray cats I feed or the bird feeders I constantly fill. I just enjoy them. And for me, that’s enough. But your reasons sound much more noble and reasonable. So hooray for you! If they make you happy, that’s enough.

  12. I think that is the perfect explanation. I love it. We all need ways to keep looking up.

  13. Beautiful Jules. Never stop looking up my friend

    thank you! ~ BB

  14. Robyn Lee says:

    Aww – now that is an inspirational post if I ever saw one Julie — you are the best… and, know how to ‘make the best’ of every joyful corner of your world!! xxoo

  15. Yes I bet you can’t imagine not having them now…………

  16. kdkh says:

    Very sweet, but no explanation needed. Even if they are a lot of work, they are part of your life now, and we can tell how much they take you out of yourself. I found your blog in the first place because of your lovely birds!

  17. bulldogsturf says:

    Birds can be very therapeutic, they are always fun to watch, and now they have you looking up… The rooster has you running so they must be good for exercise as well…lol…

  18. I love the explanation and reasoning behind your feathered family members.

  19. Barb says:

    Oh, Sweetie, I love this post. I can’t tell you how many times I catch myself looking down. What a great nudge to look up. I’ll never know what I’ll see, huh?
    Here’s a hug.

  20. adinparadise says:

    Lovely thoughts and pics, White peacocks are so beautiful. 🙂

  21. diannegray says:

    What a beautiful way to put it – looking up – lovely play on words.

    You are wonderful 🙂

  22. viveka says:

    Wonderful post – beautiful … we should all look up a bit more then we do .. most of the time we walk with our eyes on the ground and it’s not good for us – there is so much more to see and take part of when we look up and that we so easily miss with our heads down. I’m exactly the same – but after my friends funeral this week .. I have decided to look up all the time, but I also have to keep an eye on where I put my feet. Keep on looking up, Julie …

  23. bluebee says:

    Wonderful things to see up there

  24. A great metaphor for life.

    I have always felt the birds are good for you, despite the work. Like with our dogs, they allow you to just enjoy them.

  25. Yes, it is in the darkness that we see the stars.
    Great that the birds enable you to feel positive.

  26. Fergiemoto says:

    That’s a great thing to realize. Do you find the birds therapeutic even with all their antics?
    I told my hubby the other day that I think we have the most spoiled birds in the neighborhood (or beyond) because of the variety of food we put out for them. Even though they are wild, and come and go as they please, I find them therapeutic.

  27. Trisha says:

    How insightful you are!

  28. Rhonda says:

    Love it…just be careful not to get bird poop in your eyes. Okay? And looking up is always a good idea Jules…always! Make a habit of it.
    xo
    U

  29. pixilated2 says:

    I have nothing to add to the above statements. How could I? Except to say I am thinking about you, my friend. ~ Lynda

  30. ltpen315 says:

    Love it! Woderful reason, but I did not think you needed to explain. I already knew from the pics and the “conversations” they have, that these birds were loved and brought alot to your life.
    Barb

  31. Louise G. says:

    How incredibly powerful! Wow!

    And I love the photos too. As a reader, they always make me smile and feel gratitude for your sharing.

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