Guilty as charged.
When Son accused me of this a few months ago, I explained to him that (a) the birds were to cheer Husband up; (b) to keep me sane; and (c) to keep us happy….
“And to drive me crazy!” Son growled.
Point taken!
The real point is – and this has now been extensively discussed with Husband, who is totally supportive – Son is now THE priority with his scoliosis surgery happening next week. I should be able to stay in Perth for two nights with my good friend, Colleen, looking after the birds for us. And Husband is safe in the nursing lodge, so all is well.
I feel awful that Son thinks that I care more about the birds than I care about him and Husband, but I understand how he may have gotten this impression.
Son hasn’t really changed that much in his 18 years, has he? He still has a relentless determination to be a STAR!
And he is! 
jmgoyder 
The photos leave me speechless……(smiling).
hehe!
Hope all goes well next week for your son’s surgery, Julie
Thanks bluebee!