Me: While I was away, my mother visited your grave on my behalf and found what had been such a beautiful space overtaken by weeds.
Anthony: She is extraordinary!
Me: Were you watching her do the woodchip thing? Did you know she complained to the shire and they got right onto it?
Anthony: I have a room with a view.
Me: Tomorrow is Monday and your headstone is finally going to happen, Ants.
jmgoyder 
Another big mile “stone.” Julie, you are doing an extraordinary job coping with unbearable grief. With each step on your journey, you are finding more and more healing. This is a big step. Thinking of you and sending a hug!
glad you will get this up now. Well done to your mum.
The right sort of mother.
I want to take my mum to visit her parents graves, if only I still had a licence