Me: I haven’t wanted to talk to you lately.
Anthony: I noticed.
Me: Ever since talking to the headstone people I just kind of wanted to run away from the situation.
Anthony: What situation?
Me: Your death.
Anthony: Oh, that – yes.
Me: I’ve gone past the nursing home a few times now, on my motorbike lessons, and it always gives me a bit of a jolt. I saw a photo of you and C. at the nursing home and it shocked me to know that was only months before you died. I keep wanting to see you; it’s horrible, like a yawn of yearning. I’m not trying to be poetic either – it feels like the middle of me is doing this yawwwwwwn thing all the time.
Anthony: Am I boring you?
Me: Very funny, not. Not that kind of yawn – the kind where you need more oxygen. Isn’t that what a yawn is?
Anthony: [Silence]
Me: And then a gaspy thing happens and I can breathe again and then, finally, I can cry.
Anthony: Why do you want to cry?
Me: I don’t want to cry really but sometimes when I nearly cry and the tears don’t come I feel like forcing it.
Anthony: I’m listening.
Me: Other times one of your favourite songs comes on the car radio and crying just happens. It happened earlier today.
Anthony: I’m sorry I left you in the lurch, Jules.
Me: Sometimes I wish I hadn’t loved you so much. I let you mean too much, Ants – you had become my whole world. Maybe that wasn’t healthy, maybe that’s why I feel so lost now without you.
Anthony: Jules, do you realise what rubbish you are talking? Look at all of the things you are accomplishing now – the motorbike licence, the kayak lessons, the film script idea, helping Ming with his psychology diploma, the volunteering. You are not lost without me.
Me: I feel physically sick, like I am going to vomit, a lot of the time.
Anthony: But you’re free now, Jules. You should make the most of it.
Me: How? Anyway, I never wanted to be free of you!
Anthony: Never?
Me: Not once and I’m pretty sure I’m being honest here.
Anthony: I ended up needing you too much didn’t I.
Me: Sort of. Yeah, okay, I didn’t like that feeling of being so needed I guess.
Anthony: You just need to get your strength back, Jules. Do some aerobic exercise. It does wonders for the body and soul.
Me: WHAAT?
Anthony: Swimming, cycling – keep it up, Jules. Don’t give up – oh and the meditation is also useful.
Me: [Silence]
Anthony: I’ve shocked you, haven’t I.
Me: Yes! Are you being tongue-in-cheek or genuine? Meditation? I can’t believe that word actually came out of your cynical mouth.
Anthony: OM
Me: OM?
Anthony: Feeling better yet?
Me: Actually, yes.
Anthony: All right, so, whenever you don’t feel like talking to me, just OM me and I’ll OM you back.
Me: OM?
Anthony: OMMMMMMMMMM
Me: [Laughing]